I remember a time when I was newly divorced, new to the church, and there really weren't a lot of other brothers who were single dads. I was still fairly private and even though my ex-wife knew how to push my buttons, I still had a hard time reaching out to people for help. But even when I did, I don't think that I was at a place where i truly wanted to grow. I look back at those times, and it is by God's grace that I am here today (and God's grace in others that they still consider me a friend)

I remember several people sharing this scripture with me. Unfortunately, I was too self-absorbed to see it or understand it.

Although I got some comfort from God's Word, it wasn't until I was able to set aside a lot of selfishness & selfish thinking. Although I won't minimize God's power in the Word, He knew that I needed to get my head & heart right, so I could have a better relationship with Him. Only then, can I choose to stop looking at myself, and begin to sincerely see the truth in God's Word.

Paul surrendered his struggles to God, but unlike myself, he had a positive attitude: He chose to boast all the more gladly about his weaknesses!

I know that we need to vent - to a certain extent, it's a healthy & needed outlet. It helps to not only share, but unload, so you can then pray to God for help & forgiveness. What other choice do we have? Grumble only? What good come from that?!? Complaining (negative venting but without the sincere, soft-hearted prayer) is pointless. But boasting in what God can do in "us" strengthens our faith. It causes us to to depend more upon His strength, but also helps us to focus more on His promise becoming a reality in our lives.

When we face our struggles or fears, it's vital that we yield to completely to God. Because when we do, God can use our burdens as an avenue for His power & grace.